When applied in a specific manner, the Law Of Attraction is an incredibly powerful force, that can deliver you any dream you desire- whether it be financial, materialistic or even the perfect relationship for you.
But, the power to engage the Law Of Attraction with a new relationship may currently be blocked- possibly because of one or many things that you may be currently doing, without even realizing.
You see, the Law Of Attraction is always working one way or the other and, if you have wondered why you haven’t yet attracted the perfect partner for you, the Law of Attraction is possibly delivering to you, what your subconscious is requesting- even if that might be different to your conscious mind is hoping for.
So, read through the 5 steps below and ensure that you unblock what is likely prohibiting you right now, from finding your ideal partner shortly.
1. Move On From The Past
One of the biggest hindrances that can prevent you from using the Law of Attraction to get your dream relationship, is that there are currently a lot of ‘grey clouds’ that exist from your previous relationships.
You might be recalling on a timely basis, just how badly that last relationship ended, recalling just how horrible and how long it took for you to think that got over it.
In truth, perhaps a lot of that still replays in your mind these days too. The disappointment, the hurt, the frustration, the resentment…maybe even the lies..
It’s sometimes more difficult than we care to omit, just how long it can take to fully get over it.
The extent of the problem with this however, is that the longer you still hold on to these feelings (even if you feel that these feelings are now small and not really important in your life), can put a hold on making yourself fully available and allowing the Law of Attraction to deliver you a passionate lover.
Sometimes our subconscious can think it’s protecting us from future hurt, despair or depression by reminding us of what happened- but remember that the Law of Attraction will deliver what we currently are focusing on.
So, how do you go about fixing this?
The first step is forgiveness. You must be able to forgive those people in the past who have hurt you or helped you develop resentment.
Dr Joe Vitale talks about a cleaning and clearing technique called ho’oponopono, which can be used to remedy this problem.
This method is powerful, yet very simple to use and apply. Watch the video below as Dr Joe explains how you can apply his technique and once you clear the current potential Law of Attraction relationship blocker, you are ready for the next step.
2. Decide Exactly What It Is You Are Looking For
In the past, I’m sure you had some idea with what you were looking for in an ideal mate, but to get a even more longer term suitable result, you want to start to get even more specific about your dream partner.
Grab a pen and paper and jot down a detailed list of the ideal characteristics that you love to find in your soulmate.
The trick here is that you want to ensure that you remain focused on what you would really like as opposed to what you’re willing to have or put up with.
True, no person on the planet is fully flawless and absolutely perfect in every way, shape and form.
However, even if you’ve experienced a few relationships and you’ve discovered that it’s not likely that you can find someone who ‘ticks all the boxes’, give the Law of Attraction the best chance by getting dreamy and specific.
Focus on what you wish for and write those specific qualities down.
3. Vizualize Your New Dream Soulmate
When it comes to utilizing the Law of Attraction in any area of your life, one of the most important keys to harnessing its power is through visualization and from that- belief.
What you need to do, is to start to create a visual image of your dream person and try and see yourself in different scenarios with that person, so it’s starts to become even more believable to you.
If you already have someone in mind, this can be even easier- but it’s not mandatory. You will still have a good idea of what this person looks like, their personality and so forth even if you might not know exactly who that is right at this moment.
You want to visualize this person at least twice a day, just for a few minutes.
For me, because I know that after a week or so I’ll probably get distracted with work and other commitments, I tried out the 3 minute a day Mind Movies Matrix system to help with that.
That system is a much more powerful way to speed up the process, because it uses a thousands of powerful subliminal messages that penetrates deeper into your subconscious to implant your dream person vision.
It’s not absolutely necessary though (especially if you’re more patient than me!) to engage the Law of Attraction in obtaining your perfect partner.
4. Allow The Law Of Attraction To Work With Your Subconscious
So by this stage, you would have done all of the hard work.
You would have cleansed yourself from all potential blocks that may have existed from your past, created a new list of what you specifically dream of in your soul mate and vividly envisioned them for a few minutes daily.
With all that complete (although you still need to constantly envision your soul mate daily), you can now wait as your subconscious mind combines with the Law of Attraction to virtually deliver your soul mate almost to your door step.
Trust that the Universe will find the best way to deliver this person to you, in the perfect timing and location too.
Although you may have an idea of how you think this person may enter your life, don’t be too concerned if it doesn’t happen this way.
Dr Joe Vitale talks about the human ego as a means of interfering with the Law of Attraction and the Law of Creation, in that it can often be the blocker to our perfect situation.
Have faith and trust that your soul mate will bring both of you together in the perfect environment.
5. Peace, Persistance & Patience
Just above, I mentioned the human ego. Our ego and our fast paced life often try and define when we believe something should happen- and that usually is now (or even yesterday!)
As humans, we like to have control and believe that we know just about everything there is to know about us.
But, in all honesty, that couldn’t be further from the truth.
For example, can you remember a time when you went through a ‘situation’ in your life? Perhaps it was a really tough challenge that you faced.
Maybe a financial challenge, work challenge or even a relationship challenge that pushed you further that you believed you could handle.
During the crisis though, you really wondered ‘why is this happening to me…’ and it seemed totally unfair and perhaps unjustified?
What happened after some time had passed when you were fully out of that situation though? Maybe it took some months or maybe even years for ‘the penny to drop’…
But as time went on, the ‘veil’ over your eyes was slowly removed and you started to ‘understand’ why that had to happen- because if it didn’t, you wouldn’t be the person you are today.
The Universe knows and will always know, the best benefits and outcomes for us- despite our reluctance to want or be willing to accept that.
By this stage, all you are required to know and do, is know precisely what sort of person you believe will best suit you and create an image of that person that appears very real to you.
With persistence and patience- you want to remain confident, grateful and peaceful around the idea of your perfect relationship.
Just as much as gravity is a law despite the fact you may not be able to touch it or hear it, the Law of Attraction exists in pretty much the same way.
Trust that this proven Law will provide the absolute perfect lover for you, in the perfect time and environment and you will be given the your soul mate- even if right now you may not fully believe that it is going to happen to you.